I am often asked "How Did You Get Into Adult Movies?" or "What made me decide to go from body building and fitness training full time to Escorting Full Time?"
I am going to open the door of my private live to let you see just what kind of funny,entertaining,mean, nasty, fabulous and even educational individuals I have encountered along this path.
I don't think I ever thought in a million years. I would wind up providing companionship to individuals I meet thought the internet.
After all who does?
I just happen to fall into it by chance,fate or like most typical situations.
I was a full time personal fitness training with a thriving business.When the first character I will introduce you to came along.
I had many porn actresses in my clientele list so when most people would assume it was one of them that would introduce me to the life of escorting. It was not.sadly. I wish it had been.
I always had so many men in my client list. When this smooth talking guy came at me to date me. I was recently divorced. A confident and in shape bodybuilder who was just coming to the end of a relationship with a major league baseball player.To this day I will never have a answer of what the heck was I thinking.
Along came who I will just call Dirt-bag number ONE!. (kinda like client number one)
Good ol Dirt bag! Where do I begin with this Character?
he is definitely a good shit talker. I was a middle class divorced mom and so naive.I used to refer to myself as Rainbow Brite.Dirtbag dated me for about a month or so when he hd so many hotel rendezvous after dinner movies ect..
The problem with ol Dirt Bag was.. Like so many other men. Including the Baseball player. He was married. Dirt Bag managed to get into my head. He introduced me to the "What is Your Fantasy,Let's fulfill them"
Dirt Bag was not completely in shape. But had that bald head and smooth talk. Yeah I fell for him. One evening this guy who owned a motorcycle shop at the time came across as a real smart business man.
I can just say in hind sight. Dirt Bag is a con man. A real bad guy. Do I feel bad ? No I took my lumps. This Dirt Bag introduced me to a great World and a fantastic way to meet new people,make a great income and fulfill many of my own fantasies along with some great couples and men.
Shortly after meeting Dirt Bag Number One in October 2003 I was influenced and guided into the under world of escorting. He is the man behind Summer. I dated Dirt Bag from October 2033 until August 2004 when Dirt Bag was arrested. In retrospect you would think a college educated ,self confident woman would be involved with such a piece of work? I really don't know. The only conclusion wa the thrill,the bad boy stigma definitely existent here.
All along this path with Dirt Bag he was a player,now looking back, a pimp(which is why I detest them more then most people could only imagine.)He had a influence on everyone he came across though. As a President of a motorcycle club in S. California. He had influence and /or fear on most folks he came in contact with.
If I look back now and analyze this man in the best and shortest possible description.I would say he is narcissist,self promoting blow heart.
You only need to be in his presence for a few minutes when he will make sure the conversation is self promoting and plain bragging on what he is ,what he has done and what he is working on. Rainbow Brite was naive to con-men so this seemed like a smart mn in 2003. In 2005 I grew up .
The funny thing about this situation he really is the one responsible for the strong woman I became at the ge of 41. Go figure. He taught be a Street level mentality when it comes to anticipate the people who will later try to use me,rob me or plain ass lie to me.
if there is one lesson I learned from his nightly teachings it would be. Always look at the person who approached you and ask yourself this."What is it they want from me" And Is there anything I am getting from this?"
I know it sounds horrible and a t the time in 2003. My nice sweet personality and naivete attitude it was difficult for me. I grew up eager to please and make people feel nice. As fitness trainer. I was there to get my clients results and be supportive.
So the awkward start to Summer the courtesan had many many bouts of getting hurt,almost drugged by a client and a few other strange encounters.Although this character was a user. A married man who pimped women. I later learned of the Asian girl he also courted from the gym I worked at. And from what I hear . This silly rabbit is still with him. His wife is gone. I am gone.
I can say thanks to him though. I learned a lot. He is the one who suggested I start my own agency back in 2004. I did begin the agency in March 2004. But I didn't run it longer then about 2yrs. It is so difficult to deal with women who do drugs,steal and lie. I am and never left the principle of being honest. I never subscribed to bit and switch like other agencies did. Again this guy always held me back. He wanted to control me. I never understood why he would continue to say not to travel. My innocent desire to listen to him. He acted like a mentor so I never had it in my heart or brain to say apply the things he taught me to things he tells me.
He is someone who went to jail for things I can not discuss. But. It was the best thing to happen to me.
I was lucky enough to meet a bitchin chick who became not only my room mate and my double partner in 2004 due to him.. She met him at the recording studio he was involved with. Some weird guy who was also another street husler conman conned my girl out of money in Vegas. So he tried to pimp L from the beginning. He frightened her at the start. L went off to Vegas and unfortunately was working for what she thought was a agency. Only later did L get pimped and held without her will. She managed to make a phone call to Dirt Bag one afternoon.
L made her way from Vegas to the Valley where I lived. Dirt Bag number one gave me one of the best times and gifts. He introduced me and L.
The next post I will touch on L.
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